You know that every Saturday night, countless guys around the world, from California to Tokyo, splash on their cologne and head to the popular pickup spots in the hopes of hooking up with a girl. Yeah, they might pretend like they’re merely going out to socialize with their buddies, but lots of of them are really aiming to get lucky that evening with a .

And right there lies their first mistake: thinking of seduction in terms of “getting lucky.” A lot of men really believe that making some magic happen with a woman at a nightclub is about luck, fate, or being in the right place at the right time.

They fail to understand that when it comes to how to approach women in bars, there are various “classic mistakes” that guys make all the time — screwing up their chances without even knowing it — and that there are reliable moves you can employ to just about guarantee a victorious outcome.

In the view of one guy, “success” might mean meeting a cute girl and going home with her phone number. For guys who’ve mastered the “game” of pickup, success is defined another way.

Ask them what their goals are when they go out to the bar, and they’ll tell you that anything short of a “same night lay” — getting a babe home with them TONIGHT — is a waste of a night.

The predicament is that 95% of guys have no idea how to approach girls and generate attraction. And they’re too scared to approach women because of the significant amount of UNCERTAINTY that is part of it.

Give this some thought for a second. What races through your thoughts when see a girl at a bar that you would LOVE to talk to? You might be thinking…

“A girl THAT beautiful must already have a boyfriend.”
“She doesn’t look like she’s in the mood to be disturbed.”
“I’m probably not her type.”

Or, the enduring male excuse…

“I want to approach her, but I have no clue what I’m supposed to say to her!”

What’s actually occurring here is that you are only thinking about the possible NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you’ve conditioned yourself to believe that the most likely conclusion, when you approach women in bars, is that women won’t want to talk to you.

For guys who don’t know how to get girls, this often IS the result. And after going through this routine dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these guys stop trying to talk to girls in bars altogether.

They figure, “why bother? She’s only going to react the way the last 1 girls did. She won’t be interested for some reason, and then I’ll have to suffer the embarrassment of walking away with my tail between my legs.”

I’m here to tell you that you can learn how to approach girls in a way that is confident, playful and most of all STRATEGIC. There are some powerful, specific “openers” you can make use of with girls that will make them smile, and engage their interest.

We’ve tested them out in the field literally hundreds of times, to make sure these are the very BEST ways to “break the ice” and set up an interaction.

Girls WON’T see you as some clumsy, insecure guy who is hoping to NOT get turned down. Rather, girls will straight away sense that you’re a guy who can add MORE FUN to their evening.

To master our “bulletproof” tactics for how to approach women and create INSTANT sexual chemistry with the most attractive women, visit our How To Get Girls site and download our FREE 95-page book on advanced pickup and seduction tactics.

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